A Bit About Those Teenagers!!

Teenagers may be big, hairy, outspoken and vying for their independence. But, they still need us. They really aren't that different than we were at their age so think back to how you were in those past years...eek!! When your heart rate gets back to normal, remember some of your hair-raising escapades, read on...

Teens want parents to:

• UUnderstand their needs


• Improve communication


• To be fair, to show trust and to be respectful


• They want caring, honest parents


• Help in developing responsibility


• Have a sense of humour


• Time together


• Be good role models
  
  Teens need you in the driver's seat, perhaps not being the boss, but definitely guiding them along the way. Teens need a safe environment to help them make that step into adulthood.
  
  Teens are ready to have some input into rules and to take part in family decisions, for example: curfews, driving, allowances, chores and computers.



• Freedom means responsibility


• Get ready because teens like to negotiate. Be clear on where you stand so you have a good starting point. Kids want security, support and guidance and we can always give them that.


• And when their friends aren't around, they may even like a warm hug!