As parents, we give many instructions to our children. 'Put on a sweater, clean up those plates,' etc. If we want our children to cooperate we must have a foundation of trust and respect. We have to have a healthy relationship. If we don't, we will find resistance.
Six critical messages, that children should hear daily verbally or non-verbally are:
1. I believe in you.
2. I trust you.
3. I know you can handle life's situations
4. You are listened to and respected
5. You are cared for
6. You are very important to me.
It is never too late to use these messages and strengthen the bond you have with your child. Make eye contact, hug, nod, smile, sit together. Take time. It's easier to give demands when you are connected.
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